Casual Sex and Relationship Sex

I don't know whether this is because I am a woman, but I don't always find 'relationship' sex to be the best. I've had far better casual arrangements ... sometimes.

Relationships sex is routine after a while. It can't be helped. Whether that routine is broken out of depends on the people involved. First time sex can be equally as bad. I'm not talking about losing your virginity. First time sex with any new partner. It takes time to get used to someone and to feel comfortable with them. 

Sex within a relationship can be much better when there is feelings involved. But if you're bored of your partner it can make things dull and boring. One night stands can be awful. This is usually the worst set up in my experience and there's nothing to be gained from my perspective in partaking in such activities.

Friends with benefits is the best scenario for me. You have the best of it all then and there's mutual respect.