In a Relationship ...

People often joke about how you know whether you're in a relationship by how often you have sex. I was a huge fan of Sex and the City when it was on television and I'm sure this subject was in their…

A Little Treat

I'd thought I would spend some money and splash out a bit this month and treat myself to some new perfume. I was out buying birthday gifts for a friend anyway, so in a moment of madness, I decided to…

Wannabe Alpha Males

I seem to come across a lot of these men in my personal life. They want to be in control all the time, but they don't have the job or general life status to match up with their attitude.

It seems…

This Job and Bank Accounts

In this day and age it is a real bug bare of mine when banks and the like close down the accounts of people just because they work in this industry. The profession is not illegal, so if HMRC don't care…

Mistress ... Cougar???

I've always gone for older men; I've never dated anyone younger.

That was until this year when I officially declared midlife crisis terrority and went out on several dates with several younger…

Technical Hassle in the Digital Age

I don't know about you but I hate technical things. Accepting cash is much less common now and booking events is mostly done online. 

I've had another technical problem to sort out this…

What’s in a Name?

Over the last nearly eight years I have been working, I have noticed something strange. Maybe I noticed it more in the early days as I used to ask the name of people who would book. And over time I…

Early Bird

Anyone who knows me knows I like to complete tasks during the day. I have endless 'to do' lists and I would describe myself as goal orientated or a type A personality, (for those of you who are interested…

Scratchcards

With the cost of living still going on, I know many people are feeling the squeeze. 

I've never been one for scratchcards, but every time I go into my local shop I see people buying them…

Diving In

Have you ever read a book that you liked so much that it's always stuck with you? That's what happened to me when I was twelve and even now twenty-six years later, I often recount details from the story. 

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